Rest & Illumination
Writing on rest and illumination through midlife and perimenopause, from Chrissy Sundt.
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How to Tell If You Need to Slow Down in Midlife
The signs your body sends before it forces you to stop, and how to tell the difference between ordinary tired and time to ease off.
Cirqa vs Whoop vs Oura for Midlife Women: Which Wearable Actually Helps?
A practical look at what Cirqa, Whoop and Oura actually track, where they differ for midlife women, and why none of them replaces learning to read your own recovery.
How to Set Boundaries That Protect Your Energy in Midlife
Why protecting your energy in midlife takes real, specific boundaries rather than good intentions, and how to hold them without over-explaining.
How to Slow Down When You're Used to Being Busy
Why slowing down feels harder in midlife, and small, specific ways to practise it without calling it laziness.
How to Say No Without Guilt in Midlife
Why guilt shows up the moment you try to say no in midlife, and the plain, practical way to hold a boundary without the lengthy apology.
How to Build a Rest Day Into Your Week Without the Guilt
A practical guide to planning a rest day into your week, and letting go of the guilt that tells you rest is optional.
How to Switch Off After a Busy Day in Midlife
A practical look at why the old tricks for switching off stop working in perimenopause, and what actually helps a wired evening settle.
How to Build More Rest Into a Busy Week
A practical guide to fitting genuine rest into an already full midlife week, one short scheduled slot at a time.
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JOMO: The Unexpected Midlife Skill I’m Learning
Recovery isn't the opposite of progress, it's where progress happens — the joy of finally being present enough to notice life.
How Many Rest Days Do You Need Between Strength Workouts in Midlife?
A practical look at how much rest your body needs between strength sessions in perimenopause, and why that number has probably changed.
HIIT vs Strength Training in Perimenopause: Which One Actually Serves You Now?
Why a controlled strength session often serves a perimenopausal nervous system better than another hard HIIT class, and how to tell when it's time to switch.
Should You Still Do HIIT in Perimenopause?
HIIT is not automatically off the table in perimenopause, but the same session now often asks more of your recovery than it used to, so it helps to know how to judge that trade-off.